Ask the Counselor
As a biblical counselor, I’ve been asked:
“What do you think about the terms “spiritual formation” and “spiritual disciplines”?
In response to that legitimate question, consider the following eight principles for responding to questions related to the terms we use to describe our ministry.
1. Understand the Bigger Picture Behind the Question
This is really a question about the legitimacy of using “extra-biblical terms.” Not “un-biblical terms,” but “extra-biblical terms”: words or phrases not directly found in the Bible.
In using “extra-biblical terms,” the answer is not: “The word/phrase must be used directly in the Bible for it to be legitimate.” We couldn’t use the word “Trinity” if that were the case. And even if the term were in the Bible, we’d have to use the exact Hebrew, Aramaic, or Greek word to be exact. Even then there would be questions about whether our use of the exact word was accurate to the original usage.
The answer must be: “Is the person defining their word/phrase biblically and providing biblical support for their usage?”
2. Don’t Just “Defend Our Terminology Turf”
Sometimes in the modern biblical counseling world (see Powlison and Lambert for historical overviews of modern biblical counseling) we seem hyper-focused on “defending our terminology turf.”
That is, it’s okay for us to coin terms that we do not directly find in Scripture. “Halo data” by Adams and “volitional beings” by myself are just two examples in the modern biblical counseling world. “Complementarianism” and “egalitarianism” are two examples in the modern Evangelical world. But then we get nervous when others use terms, such as spiritual formation and spiritual disciplines, for which we don’t detect a direct biblical counterpart.
3. Define Our Terms
If we choose to criticize a modern extra-biblical term, whether it’s spiritual formation, spiritual disciplines, biblical counseling, or biblical psychology, the person critiquing others must first provide an “operational definition” of the term they are critiquing. That is, we need to craft a careful and specific description of how we are using the term. We need to be careful about blanket, generic, abstract statements like, “Spiritual formation is a non-biblical term that reflects Eastern mysticism.” Really? By whose definition and whose usage?
David Powlison provides a tremendous example of defining his terms in his discussion of six usages of the term “psychology” (click here for a video interview). With Powlison’s operational definitions in hand, now he can intelligently interact with others about “psychology.”
4. Allow the Other Person to Define His/Her Term
Once we have our definition clear, then we need to be clear and fair about how others define their terms. Far too often we critique a straw man. Rather than allowing others to define what they mean by spiritual formation or spiritual disciplines (from their own writings and teachings), we embed and load their term with what every other person in history has ever said about the term.
It demonstrates common courtesy, academic honesty, and biblical/exegetical excellence to read in context what others mean by their use of a given term. Let’s not be sloppy and lazy in our critiques of how other people use extra-biblical terms. Let’s engage their work specifically from their definitions and developments of their terms.
5. Be Careful of False Guilt by False Association
What we sometimes hear when people critique terms such as spiritual formation and spiritual disciplines is, “So and so, who is outside our ‘camp,’ used the phrase, so anyone inside our ‘camp” who uses that phrase has obviously capitulated to that unbiblical usage.”
Let’s be more specific. In the Evangelical world, it might read like this, “Those Catholic and Eastern Orthodox mystics in the Dark Ages used spiritual formation and spiritual disciplines, so if this Evangelical is using those terms, he is obviously guilty of non-Evangelical mysticism.”
Or, in the biblical counseling world we might hear, “Those ‘integrationists’ use ‘psychology,’ so any biblical counselor who uses that term is obviously guilty of being an ‘integrationist.’”
How does one know if it is true guilt by actual association or false guilt by false association? Fair question.
Some people assume the answer is, “See, they quoted someone outside our camp!”
Are we saying by that: “Only those inside our camp are always right (which they are not), and those outside our camp are always wrong”? We seem to insist on practicing secondary and tertiary separation even in the scholarly quoting of those outside our group.
A more accurate assessment asks: “Is this person defining their term biblically or using the term with a ‘whole-hog graft’ from others who may not have defined the term biblically to begin with?” That is a legitimate, fair, and vital question to ask.
6. Be Willing to Reclaim Legitimate Terms
Have some extra-biblical terms become embedded with unbiblical definitions? Yes. Psychology is an example.
However, we can, and I believe, should, reclaim those terms. The Church Fathers (such as Tertullian) and the Puritans (such as Edwards) did just that. They developed a “biblical psychology”: a biblical way of understanding people (Creation), problems (Fall), and solutions (Redemption).
Historian of Christian Spiritual Direction, Tilden Edwards explains how the church has always borrowed and biblically redefined words from their current culture.
“Historically the Church always has utilized the current psychology of its culture. However, what it has borrowed, it has modified and transformed in the light of its own tradition. But if there is no deep awareness of the experiential, developmental anthropology of the tradition, then there is no real mutation, just a whole-hog graft. If the graft takes, it tends to take over. Sooner or later then the Church loses its unique experiential wisdom for the society; it finds itself more and more absorbed as an expedient base for someone else’s “revelation,” unqualified by its own” (Tilden Edwards, Spiritual Friend: Reclaiming the Gift of Spiritual Direction, 1980, pp. 32-33).
Jay Adams, John Bettler, and David Powlison identify six ways that the modern nouthetic counseling movement has used secular terms and concepts as a catalyst for developing biblical counseling concepts. You can read their discussion of the process here: 6 Words Describing What Jay Adams and Nouthetic Counseling Do with Secular Psychology.
Luther is a prime example of using, but redefining, terms. For my dissertation, I studied Luther’s pastoral counseling. Given his place in church history, Luther was very careful about any false form of spiritual discipline. He vehemently rejected any notion of spiritual disciplines that were practiced to earn God’s grace. However, he accepted and encouraged others to practice spiritual disciplines when they were practiced as a response to God’s grace and as a means of being responsive to the Spirit’s work in their heart.
I believe we ought to reclaim a phrase like spiritual formation rather than running and hiding. We’ve abdicated far too many words. Let’s stop surrendering. Spiritual formation, biblically defined, is the goal of biblical counseling: our inner lives increasingly reflecting the inner life of Christ. We call it Christlikeness through progressive sanctification. We could also call it “spiritual formation.”
Frankly, any time a biblical counselor moves from “the indicative” to “the imperative” and starts talking specifically about “put off/put on,” that biblical counselor is involved in the process of spiritual formation. And, when that biblical counselor suggests a specific “put off/put on,” he or she has moved into the realm of spiritual disciplines: biblical truth applied specifically to a unique person in their specific circumstances.
If people would rather use the phrase “progressive sanctification” instead of “spiritual formation,” that’s fine. And if people would rather use the phrase “biblical counseling homework,” instead of “spiritual disciplines,” that’s fine, too. But carefully and biblically defined, those are overlapping terms theologically and methodologically.
7. Be Wise in the Implementation of Spiritual Growth Practices
People also need to be careful with the adage, “Jesus did not practice _______, nor did His Apostles. So that spiritual practice is obviously unbiblical.” Ponder the implications of that philosophy.
• Where do we have biblical warrant from the example of Christ and the Apostles for a sixty minute meeting (often fifty minutes) once per week for biblical counseling?
• Where do we see “homework” at the end of those once a week meetings?”
• Taking it to broader categories, where do we see warrant for much of what happens in our Sunday worship services? Or even for something as basic as Sunday School or Children’s Church?
It is an illegitimate argument to declare a particular spiritual discipline to be wrong simply because it was not specifically practiced by Jesus or the Apostles.
Rather, the legitimate question would be: “Do we have a theological basis for what we do and for what we don’t do in the particulars of progressive sanctification, putting off and putting on, and being formed by the Spirit through the Word increasingly into the image of Christ?”
8. Define Extra-Biblical Terms Using Biblical Categories
Principle eight has been implicit in all the preceding principles. The term itself is not the crux of the issue. Whether the term is biblical counseling, progressive sanctification, growth in grace, soul care, spiritual direction, spiritual formation, or spiritual disciplines, the core question relates to how the extra-biblical term is defined biblically. Much could be shared here, but two main points summarize the biblical categories.
- Is the term developed based upon comprehensive theological categories?
Is the term developed with a biblical anthropology (Creation): A comprehensive biblical understanding of how God designed the soul?
Is the term developed with a biblical hamartiology (Fall): A comprehensive biblical understanding of the impact of sin, fallenness, depravity, the world, the flesh, and the devil?
Is the term developed with a biblical soteriology (Redemption): A comprehensive biblical understanding of salvation, grace, our new nature, and sanctification?
- Is the term developed based upon a Gospel-Centered biblical understanding of salvation and sanctification?
This second question was hinted at in the last part of the previous question.
Is the term developed based upon a comprehensive understanding of Christ-centered salvation: grace, faith, justification, reconciliation, regeneration, redemption, union with Christ, and the biblical gospel indicatives?
Is the term developed based upon a comprehensive understanding of grace-based sanctification that builds the imperatives upon the indicatives?
Teaching You to Fish Instead of Giving You a Fish
The preceding eight principles do not tell you what to think about “spiritual formation” and “spiritual disciplines.” Instead, they share ideas about how to think about those terms and any other extra-biblical terms.
Do I think there is an “Evangelical and a non-Evangelical theology of spiritual formation and practice of spiritual disciplines?” Yes. There are biblical ways and unbiblical ways of understanding growth in grace.
Should we be concerned about our theology and practice of spiritual formation and spiritual disciplines? Absolutely. I spend 750 pages developing my biblical approach to those vital matters in Soul Physicians and Spiritual Friends.
I want us all to be wise, discerning Bereans (Acts 17:11) and not carnal, divisive Corinthians (1 Corinthians 1:10-17) when it comes to discernment about spiritual formation and spiritual disciplines.
Join the Conversation
• “What do you think about “spiritual formation” and “spiritual disciplines”?
• What principles would you add for helping people to assess extra-biblical terms?
• Which of the eight principles resonate with you? Which do you disagree with? Why?
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Hi, Bob,
I really appreciate your approach in challenging us to THINK and not just mindlessly label people by putting them into categories. To me, labeling people and putting them into a “box” is lazy legalism. It’s easier to do lazy legalism than to form a relationship with someone to really get to know them. “John Doe is a ____” is easy and really, it’s prideful on the part of the “box labeler” because it is as if that one label defines the person as a whole and now I can dismiss them with a clear conscience.
When did biblical counselors forget to speak the truth in LOVE to one another? It takes love to challenge someone who is in error and I have a group of people around me who are free to challenge me at any time with the Word of God because I need it. I need to grow. It’s pride to think ANY of us have the market cornered on truth. We all have blind spots and the person’s blind spots I am MOST concerned with are my own!
Aren’t we divided enough in the body of Christ?
We, theologians, argue over terminology (which is VERY important, please understand that I recognize the immense value of biblical terminology) and “boxes” when there is a LOST and dying world headed straight to hell. I’m a practitioner at heart so these debates about views and camps really anger me when so many around us need to hear the simple Gospel and the truth of Christ in love.
Do you want to know what I believe? Then ask me. Get to know me.
Do you want to put me in a box? Then do so at your own peril and dismiss what the Lord might teach you through a poor, begging man like me.
Frankly, I wrote The Heart of Addiction to help the people I counseled. I purposely wrote it at an 8th grade level so more people could understand the concepts. I was not trying to impress theologians nor do I think the book is 100% theologically sound…only Christ’s Book is that. But I wanted to help people and I was foolish enough to think that the Lord might use me to do so for His own glory despite my glaring flaws and there are many.
Humility. Humility is what we all lack when we get into these debates. And we lack Grace. Grace to see that we were once, too, blinded and God in His grace opened our eyes to see His truth that someone has YET to see or embrace.
I am patient with those who are in the “wrong camps” (sarcasm implied, it’s a joke meant to illustrate a point). I love “those” brothers (they are “my” brothers not “those” brothers but again, I am illustrating a point here). I am praying for them and for God to open their eyes as He has mine. But most importantly, I am praying for God to open my eyes to see Jesus so that I might reflect His glory and be like Him: humble and gracious to all, even my “enemies.” (Matt. 5:43-46)
-Mark (clinging to the amazing grace of Christ and loving His truth that makes me free)
This was very helpful. As I thought about the discussion I became aware that I often use the term “spiritual disciplines” but don’t usually talk about spiritual formation (although that term was used at the school I used to teach at). I think it is because I associate “spiritual formation” with certain people and a certain tradition that I would give a mixed review to. I associate “spiritual disciplines” with what we often call “means of grace”: meditation on the Word, worship, prayer, fellowship, service, etc. I agree with Bob that, rightly understood, spiritual formation is simply progressive sanctification. I especially resonated with principles 3 and 4: make sure you and the person you are talking to define terms. You might discover you mean basically the same thing. Even if you mean different things you will be able to discuss and disagree more intelligently. If we simply avoid every word or concept not found directly in the Bible we run at least two risks: first, we run the risk of always being on the defensive–being defined more by what we don’t believe than what we believe. Second, we run the risk of being increasingly irrelevant to the world we live in. The world regularly talks about “psychology” and many Christians talk about “spiritual formation.” If we don’t understand and reclaim these terms, how can we speak the truth of the gospel into the lives of people today? If we understand and reclaim these kinds of terms we can speak intelligently and relevantly about gospel truth in ways people understand. This is what we see in Scripture itself–John co-opting the term “logos” to speak of Jesus as the divine Word of God. He packs the term with new meaning although related to the original meaning. We see the same thing with Paul in Acts 17–quoting Greek writers to preach the gospel to Greeks. Bob’s 8 principles give us a way of speaking Christ’s unchanging truth into our particular culture with relevant clarity. Thanks Bob.
Mark and Pat, Thanks for your enthusiastic responses. Your personal/ministry illustrates add a lot of practical insight to this important discussion. Bob
Bob, I agree there is way too much division within Christianity regarding spiritual formation and the spiritual disciplines. I hesitated to call myself a spiritual director due to fear of lack of acceptance by the evangelical community.
As a former director of an evangelical pro-life pregnancy center, I learned the importance of understanding the stages in spiritual formation. Our clients presented with problem pregnancies, but I soon discovered the true problems were spiritual ones. Once we got the spiritual problems sorted out, we could better deal with the pregnancy problems.
I used a spiritual awareness chart developed by the Christian Business Men’s Committee to assess the client’s stage in spiritual formation. There really is no point in trying to pray with someone to receive Christ if they don’t even believe in a Supreme Being, for example. When we meet them where they are, then we can move forward from there. Here, practicing spiritual disciplines are helpful as a means of receiving God’s grace to grow. If the client had awareness of a Supreme Being, but no knowledge of the Gospel, we would work on initial awareness of the gospel through study, meditation, prayer, etc.
I see spiritual formation and spiritual disciplines as two very different things. A working knowledge of both of them has been very useful to me as a counselor in an evangelical setting.
Bob,
I appreciate your insights regarding this issue. I’m afraid I have sometimes been more “hyper-focued on defending our terminology turf” without giving enough time to understand what is meant by the ‘extra-biblical’ terms presented. There have been other times however, where I have felt the need to reclaim legitimate terms for the sake of proper understanding of the Gospel. I can certainly see where, at times, terms used in Psychology can be confusing if not explained biblically or if not debunked due to inaccurate correlation to biblical truths.
I agree however, that a patient and engaging manner toward another is the best approach to achieve clarity. Although ‘spiritual formation’ and ‘spiritual disciplines’ have not been terms of issue for me, there have been others which have.
Thanks for this insighful challenge to my thinking and handling the issue of terms used in different arenas!
Donna, I really respect your Berean mindset to learn and grow. Bob