The Anatomy of Anxiety
Part 24: SOUL-u-tion-Focused Ministry
Note: For previous posts in this blog mini-series, visit: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, and 23.
Big Idea: Does worry, doubt, or fear get the best of you sometimes? Do you wonder where anxiety comes from and how to defeat it in your life and the lives of those you love? Then we need a biblical anatomy of anxiety. We need God’s prescription for victory over anxiety.
SOUL-u-tion Focused Biblical Counseling
The Apostle Paul’s solution to anxiety is not simply to exhort, “Stop being anxious!”
In fact, Paul is not solution-focused. He’s SOUL-u-tion focused!
True biblical counseling is soul-to-soul counseling. True victory over anxiety, worry, fear, stress, panic, and phobia only occurs in the context of relationship.
We discover this biblical reality in the larger context of Philippians 4:6-7.
Relational Healing for Victory Over Anxiety
Biblical counseling sometimes is accused of the stereotype of, “Take two verses and call me in the morning.” Someone struggles with anxiety and they’re prescribed Philippians 4:6-7.
Scripture is totally sufficient. It is not a lucky charm.
Scripture is totally relevant. It is not applied out of context—neither out of the person’s life context, nor out of the scriptural context.
We’ve been applying the sufficiency and relevancy of Philippians 4:6-7 for conquering anxiety when anxiety attacks. But certainly not in a “take two verses” mentality.
So let’s travel back a bit in the scriptural context of Philippians and let’s notice some relational prescriptions for healing anxiety.
*Therefore my brothers (4:1)
*You whom I love and long for (4:1)
*Stand firm in the Lord, dear friends (4:1)
*I plead with Euodia and Syntyche to agree with each other (4:2)
*Loyal friends, help these women who have contended at my side (4:3)
*Along with Clement and the rest of my fellow workers (4:3)
It Takes a Community
Paul lives and ministers soul-to-soul with brothers whom he loves and longs for. Is that how we minister, or do we minister arms-length, giving one another spiritual stiff-arms?
Paul’s biblical counsel for victory over anxiety involves standing firm in community. With brothers and sisters in Christ. With dear spiritual friends.
“Loyal friends” (or “yokefellows”) is used only this one time in the Bible. It means being united by a relational bond as close as family. It pictures comrades, partners, loyal spiritual friends. A band of brothers. Sisters in the Spirit.
“Fellow workers” is sun athleo: athletes together! Teammates.
It’s not, “Take two verses and call me in the morning.”
It’s, “Travel with a few safe spiritual friends morning, noon, and night.”
It’s, “Cultivate a band of brothers, a sorority of sisters, a team of spiritual athletes, a family of spiritual friends.”
Victory over anxiety comes in community.
Making It Real
1. How do you minister? Arms-length? Spiritual stiff-arms? Solution-focused? Or soul-to-soul? Loving and longing? SOUL-u-tion-focused?
2. Who are you spiritual athletes together with? Who are your spiritual teammates?
3. Who are you loyal, trustworthy friends with? Do you have a band of spiritual brothers? A sorority of spiritual sisters?
The Rest of the Story
What sort of spiritual conversations can spiritual brothers and sisters engage in to experience joint victory over anxiety? We’ll find out next time.
Join the Journey
How can biblical ministry move from solution-focused to SOUL-u-tion-focused?
Thank you so much for your realistic series on relationships Dr. Kellemen! ~ I am reminded that His grace is generously sufficient for us all. ~ And I am most grateful for your series reminding us that overcoming anxiety is not a quick fix. ~ The Lord delivered me from gambling over six years ago ~ I am so grateful for that. ~ Once the smoke cleared from my gambling, if you will, was when I discovered that the relationships I had been surrounding myself with were not. ~ What I received through my deliverance was a relationship with God, myself and the gift of surrounding myself with my spiritual family of which you so splendidly share in this blog. ~ I am grateful to minister and coach heart-to-heart and for the understanding that it is, indeed, the Journey. ~ So well put ~ “It is not a lucky charm.” ~ I am every grateful for God’s grace and Word that sustains us all.
In Christ,
~ Nancy